May 29, 2025
The Girls aren’t what they once were. But I’m not going to let the nostalgia for my pre-baby body get in the way of enjoying living with what I’m working with now. The messiness of body positivity means encouraging my friends to believe they’re beautiful exactly as they are. And watching them grow past 30, past pregnancy, and past the regular fluctuations that all women experience at any stage, you realize that our worth is not tied to our bodies. But it’s also really fun to feel hot.
Is a the right tank top going to solve all of my problems? Absolutely not. Is the right tank top going to make me feel hot? Sure. I love how the cups are sewn in so I don’t have to fight with them when I’m folding laundry. I love how I don’t have to worry about bra straps and I get a more seamless look. I love how I can go from a workout to daycare pick up without needing to get changed.
Have I bounced back? Do I care? I’m hot when I’m feeling myself. That’s a state of mind, a perfect outfit, and probably enough makeup to make me feel put together.
I’m embracing a bra-free summer. And maybe this tank is what’s going to get me there.
Link to this amazing tank (Amazon)
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